Saying Goodbye: The Bittersweet Part of Being an Exotic Shorthair Kitten Breeder
As an Exotic Shorthair kitten breeder in Cape Cod, New England, the question I’m asked most often is:
“How do you say goodbye to the kittens?”
The truth is—it’s never easy. These kittens are part of my family for the first 12 to 14 weeks of their lives. Of course I get attached, and yes, I’ve shed a few tears watching them leave. But more than anything, I feel happy and proud knowing that I’ve helped bring joy and love into someone else’s life.
Preparing Exotic Shorthair Kittens for Their Forever Homes
The transition from my home to a new family starts long before pickup day. It begins with the relationships I build with prospective owners.
I’m especially drawn to people who do their research—those who attend CFA or TICA cat shows, ask thoughtful questions, and truly take time to learn about the Exotic Shorthair breed. These individuals tend to be patient, intentional, and prepared for the responsibility of bringing home a kitten.
Why Meeting the Breeder Matters
While many breeders prefer to keep their homes private (and understandably so), I personally believe that meeting in person builds trust. I like when people want to get to know me, see where the kittens are raised, and meet the adult cats as well. I do wait until the kittens are old enough, have received their vaccinations, and are nearly ready to go before scheduling visits—this ensures everyone’s safety, especially the kittens’.
Responsible Breeding Starts with Responsible Communication
Whether someone finds me at a show or online, I always appreciate it when they make an effort to introduce themselves, fill out my inquiry form, and share details about their lifestyle and pet experience. That initial connection tells me a lot about the kind of home a kitten might be going to—and helps ensure it's a great match for everyone.
When Do Exotic Shorthair Kittens Go Home?
Exotic Shorthair kittens are never placed before they’re ready. I wait until they are between 12 to 14 weeks of age, when they are:
Fully weaned from their mother
Socialized, confident, and playful
Vaccinated and health-checked
By that time, their mother is usually more than ready to let them go—which makes the transition easier on both sides.
What’s Included When Bringing Home an Exotic Shorthair Kitten
To support a smooth transition, I provide each new owner with a familiar, unwashed blanket that smells like mom and littermates. This comforting scent helps ease those first few days in a new environment.
In addition, each kitten goes home with:
A supply of the food they’re used to
Favorite toys
A few extras they love
A thorough “Kitten 101” care guide, which includes everything from feeding schedules to grooming tips and vet recommendations.
Staying Connected with My Kitten Families
One of the most rewarding parts of being a breeder is staying connected with the families who adopt my kittens. I especially love when new owners keep in touch—sharing photos, funny stories, and little life updates.
My phone often lights up throughout the day with messages from past adopters, and it never fails to make me smile. Knowing that one of my kittens is so deeply loved and cherished brings me immense joy. It reminds me that what I do truly matters—not just for the kittens, but for the people whose lives they touch.
The Joy in Letting Go
It’s never easy to say goodbye, but watching my kittens thrive in their forever homes makes it all worth it. Being a responsible Exotic Shorthair breeder is about more than just raising adorable kittens—it’s about placing them with families who will love and care for them wholeheartedly.
Every successful placement is a celebration, and every update from a happy home is a beautiful reminder of why I do this.